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Monday, July 11, 2011

be fair


we always be unfair

when A make a mistake you can forgive him/her easily but if B make the same mistake why can't you forgive him/her easily like what you did to A

when A hurt you and then she/he say sorry you can forgive him/her just like that but if B hurt you without intention to do it doesn't matter how many times she ask for your forgiveness you still can't forgive her. why?

when A do something to you, you still can think positive about him/her but why when it is done by B you always think in negative way

above is  just an example from me. but if you think about it, it actually happen around us. even me, sometime i feel like i didn't treat people fairly. but we can try right?. try to be fair

sometime i wonder why can't we treat people equally.
being fair it doesn't mean that if you give someone present you have to give it to all of your friends but in this post it's refere to fair in treating people
i believe that if we try to do it insyaAllah we can improve it. 

so instead of saying that you can't treat someone equally and it's hard to do it..
 try to imagine when you are a baby how hard you try to walk and how many times you fail everytime you try to walk. but lastly you able to walk. right?. 
it's mean that everything if possible if you really want to do it

if you want to do it you will do it but if you give thousand of reasons it's mean that you didn't want to do it actually

so try to be fair to all your friends. just try as best as you can:) 

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

yes dear, indeed :) Love this entry

-BB

Anonymous said...

yup...im agree what u say...i will try my best to be a fair friend.. although it phit nak telan but i must try...only thik (+)....hehe

Anonymous said...

some people may think why people dont treat her/him as fair as others? he/ she dont know what's ruined in her/ him heart..

mayb others also try to be fair to her/him, but he/she dont know what others try to make it fair to all.

some people say, ignorance is bliss, it happend to all while some people say ignorance is cruel? we have no rights to say they are wrong because of they say that.

human is human.. =) but in whatever conditions, try to be moderate, good sense of humor and we can live happily with each others.

Allah create something with a very beautiful reasons. Also as some people do. Maybe they have something to show. but he/she cant. Forgive and be positive is the best way.

S.A.H said...

yup forgive and be positive
although it's not easy but at least we must try:)

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