stop blaming each others

We never tired from waiting and lastly our prayer had been accepted

Doctor Mimi calls my wife and she told us that my wife was pregnant. We have waiting for this moment almost 10 years

After waiting for 9 months my wife gave birth. a girl

we really love her very much

but our happiness didn't last forever.  it's happened when nini was 2 years old.

at that day i'm need to rush for work so i asked my wife to close the gate.

she just smile at me and nodded her head while nini still sleeping in her room

suddenly she heard something and when she went out she saw our baby had been

hit by the car. she called me and i rushed to the hospital

then i saw her crying outside the operation room and beside her doctor Mimi

our daughter can't be save. she had internal bleeding

the first thing i do

i hug my wife and i told her that i didn't blame her and i really love her very much

i accepted this as a test from Allah

above is just an example. What you get after reading it?

Actually sometime we have to face this kind of situation and what the first thing we do?

Blaming each others?

It’s your fault

No it’s your fault

Until when we want to blame others for everything that happen

Try to think what did you get when you keep blaming your friends or your family when

Something bad happen?

I’m sure none of your friend and your family members want it to happen

Like if your friend forgot to close the door and luckily nothing happen but when you know about it you scold her. Let’s bygones be bygones it’s already happen whatever you do you can’t change it. I’m sure your friend didn’t mean it. Stop putting more burdens on her shoulder.
it's doesn't mean we can't be anger at all.. well anger is one of  our character and it's common in every person but we must try to control it don't let it control us

We always blame each others when something bad happen but why when something good happen we seldom praise each others

Think about it

Abu Hurairah, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that a man said to the Prophet, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam:

"Advise me! "The Prophet said, "Do not become angry and furious." The man asked (the same) again and again, and the Prophet said in each case, "Do not become angry and furious."